multitaskmom wrote:
Ashleigh's character reminds me of Emma a little bit too. Just in some ways.
You got me thinking about that and I've concluded you're right. But then, you generally are!
I see Emma in Ashleigh in the way they're both so convinced of their own viewpoint that they don't let any evidence to the contrary change their minds, no matter how blatant the proof staring them in the face.
Something that drove me crazy about Ashleigh was how she blithely refused to accept that Julia wasn't interested in Ned, simply because she (Ashleigh) had decided early on that Julia WAS interested in Ned. End of story. Written in stone. Finite. Finished. DONE. I wanted so badly to shake her 'til her teeth rattled and I give points to Julia for being so patient and forebearing with her.
Another similarity between Emma and Ashleigh is that they're both very loyal to their friends and families, and their hearts are in the right place despite the discomforts they cause all around. They are generous about finding the good in others and overlooking flaws.
One big difference between them is the men in their lives. Ashleigh starts out liking Parr who is in some ways very similar to Mr. Knightley--responsible, mature, has a social conscience--who would have perhaps been a restraining influence on her if they'd gotten together, but she ends up with a boy who is more co-conspirator than counterpart. In contrast, Emma has a sort of relationship with a young man (Frank) who is even more involved in romantic intrigue and tricks than Emma herself, but she ends up with Knightley, the one man with the power to rein her in somewhat. So one girl finds true love with the male version of herself while the other finds it in her opposite number. However, they each chose both kinds of men to be in their inner circle.
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