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nighttimepatronofthearts Volturi Mom

Joined: 22 Feb 2008 Posts: 2265 Location: Scotrun, Pennsylvania
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Posted: Mon Jul 07, 2008 12:42 pm Post subject: carlisile selfish |
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Carlisile selfish, never. I think that a truley more altruistic person has never lived, well, existed. He has spent ten lifetimes trying to do good in the world, and protect humankind. _________________ "You're not going to budge me on this."
"I bet I could," he murmured, his eyes burning again.
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Michelle ma bella Newborn

Joined: 05 Jun 2008 Posts: 79 Location: Riverton, Utah
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Posted: Tue Jul 08, 2008 6:54 am Post subject: |
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| I think he was the savior role. he never changed anyone that wouldn't have otherwise have died. |
Ya, for the most part I get that. But what about Rosalie? She really seems to struggle with what she has lost. I am sure she enjoys the benefits but she resents Bella for giving up a normal life by choice. Do you think that maybe some in the Cullen family would have chosen to die rather then live as a vampire? I think Emmett LOVES being a vampire, Alice definitely has a much better life as a vampire, but I don't think Rosalie, if given the choice, would have chosen it. Carlisle, Esme, Edward, and Jasper I am usure of. _________________ "Bella," he murmured, his voice warm and velvet. "Would you please stop trying to take your clothes off?"
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queenofmycastle Volturi Mom

Joined: 11 Dec 2007 Posts: 6281 Location: queenie lay there like a slug. It was her only defense.
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Posted: Tue Jul 08, 2008 7:28 am Post subject: |
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You're so right, Michelle ma bella, Rosalie does seem to struggle with her human memories more than the others do. Honestly, however, I get the feeling that she struggles more with the loss of the dream of what her life could have been than with the reality of how it would've, in all probability, turned out. She could have married Royce, set the social standard in Rochester, had a slew of beautiful babies and would possibly have still been envious of Vera. Rosalie would've had all the trimmings of an ideal life but would've still been married to Royce, who likely would have treated Rosalie like a fixture in his life, brought out only when he needed/wanted to impress.
Certainly, had nature taken its course, Rosalie would have been dead. Whether it was fate or coincidence, Carlisle found her broken and bleeding in the street. I think he probably kicked into "doctor mode" first and attempted to treat her injuries. When it wasn't possible to heal her, he chose to make her immortal in hopes of finding a partner for Edward. Again, I can't find it in myself to call that selfish. Making the decision to change Rosalie didn't benefit Carlisle in any way.
So, while Rosalie may struggle more with her human memories, if really given the choice to have died that night or be given the choice to be eternally beautiful, I'm not altogether certain she'd have chosen death. And now she has Emmett so I don't feel too sorry for her.  _________________
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Michelle ma bella Newborn

Joined: 05 Jun 2008 Posts: 79 Location: Riverton, Utah
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Posted: Thu Jul 10, 2008 3:51 pm Post subject: |
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You're so right, Michelle ma bella, Rosalie does seem to struggle with her human memories more than the others do. Honestly, however, I get the feeling that she struggles more with the loss of the dream of what her life could have been than with the reality of how it would've, in all probability, turned out. She could have married Royce, set the social standard in Rochester, had a slew of beautiful babies and would possibly have still been envious of Vera. Rosalie would've had all the trimmings of an ideal life but would've still been married to Royce, who likely would have treated Rosalie like a fixture in his life, brought out only when he needed/wanted to impress.
Certainly, had nature taken its course, Rosalie would have been dead. Whether it was fate or coincidence, Carlisle found her broken and bleeding in the street. I think he probably kicked into "doctor mode" first and attempted to treat her injuries. When it wasn't possible to heal her, he chose to make her immortal in hopes of finding a partner for Edward. Again, I can't find it in myself to call that selfish. Making the decision to change Rosalie didn't benefit Carlisle in any way.
So, while Rosalie may struggle more with her human memories, if really given the choice to have died that night or be given the choice to be eternally beautiful, I'm not altogether certain she'd have chosen death. And now she has Emmett so I don't feel too sorry for her.  |
Very good points, Queen, and you made me think about something else: I think Rosalie REALLY ENJOYED her payback with Royce and his buddies. In fact, I REALLY ENJOYED her payback - I sure wouldn't have wanted her to miss out on that! _________________ "Bella," he murmured, his voice warm and velvet. "Would you please stop trying to take your clothes off?"
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karmaoverdogma Newborn
Joined: 09 Jul 2008 Posts: 8
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Posted: Fri Jul 11, 2008 7:50 am Post subject: |
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I love Carlisle... LOVE him! I think it was a bit of both actually. I think for Edward is was savior, becuase of what Elizabeth asked of him. Esme though, I think selfish cause he wanted a mate. Rosalie... unselfish again, he wanted Edward to be happy. _________________

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missaloo Gold Vampire

Joined: 27 Jan 2008 Posts: 5407 Location: Extremely Northern Utah :D
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Posted: Sun Jul 13, 2008 2:52 pm Post subject: |
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| karmaoverdogma wrote: |
| I love Carlisle... LOVE him! I think it was a bit of both actually. I think for Edward is was savior, becuase of what Elizabeth asked of him. Esme though, I think selfish cause he wanted a mate. Rosalie... unselfish again, he wanted Edward to be happy. |
I agree. I think it was a bit of both actually for all three of them. Selfish because none of them were given the chance to decide for themselves, but savior becuase he only did it to save all of them. _________________

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Michelle ma bella Newborn

Joined: 05 Jun 2008 Posts: 79 Location: Riverton, Utah
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Posted: Sun Jul 13, 2008 4:39 pm Post subject: |
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| missaloo wrote: |
| karmaoverdogma wrote: |
| I love Carlisle... LOVE him! I think it was a bit of both actually. I think for Edward is was savior, becuase of what Elizabeth asked of him. Esme though, I think selfish cause he wanted a mate. Rosalie... unselfish again, he wanted Edward to be happy. |
I agree. I think it was a bit of both actually for all three of them. Selfish because none of them were given the chance to decide for themselves, but savior becuase he only did it to save all of them. |
I think this may be why I came up with this question because when I first read Twilight I was kind of bothered by Carlisle. I really liked him: he was so gentle and loving and level-headed, but I couldn't stop thinking about the fact that he did change his "family" that had no choice. It seemed to me that it was glossed over in the book. I didn't know how to reconcile this because to me, it was inconsistent. I mean, here was this wonderful man who helped so many, including his family, but then again, because of him they had to overcome and are still learning how to overcome so many challenges, ones that wouldn't exist if Carlisle had let nature take its course.
Missaloo and karma I really liked what you said because it really doesn't have to be one or the other; it can be both. This is yet another example of SM's great characterization: Carlisle is more real to me because of his inconsistencies and imperfections, maybe even his poor decisions. The characters in Twilight are more real because to me they have depth and are multi-faceted and there are no easy answers, just like life. And this is exactly why I love to read! _________________ "Bella," he murmured, his voice warm and velvet. "Would you please stop trying to take your clothes off?"
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Dianec Onyx Vampire

Joined: 26 Jul 2008 Posts: 145 Location: Los Angeles, CA
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I don't think of Carlise as selfish but I don't think of him as a savior either. He changed Edward because Edward's mother asked him to (not in so many words) and he wanted a companion. He had been alone for many years. As with Esme, he wanted a companion/a mate. Rosalie - he wanted someone for Edward. I know Rosalie appears bitter but I think that is only in response to Bella because Bella can have the life Rosalie wanted but she feels she is giving it up. I think Rosalie knows that even if Carlise didn't turn her, she would not have had the life she dreamed of because she would have died. I don't think she regrets being turned (afterall, she asked for Emmett to be turned).
Also, Carlise believes they have souls so I don't think he feels he's condemning them. So, no, he's not selfish but he's not a savior either. He is a multi-faceted character who does good but also has flaws. I really like him. _________________
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