InnamorataDiTwilight wrote:
The question could also be "would it be wrong for her to give up Edward?" It may very well be. I think Shimmerskin posed this thought earlier. I've reflected and will continue to do so, but here are more thoughts:
The love Bella and Edward have is beyond the ordinary. It has reached, and I suspect will continue to reach, a greater spiritual height--one that goes beyond the two of them. Why would an interspecies marriage be wrong other than that it offers no procreativity? Of course marriage encompasses within it, for most traditions, that children be fruits of unions. Their union therefore would be fruitless as society expects.
And yet would it? Who can say that Carlisle's long life has not been fruitful? Life- giving and saving throughout the centuries.
Also, that same society would view it perfectly correct and reasonable for a couple to form their own lives. It is correct for Bella to leave her family. Renee sanctions it in the first chapter of BD. The scripture "For a man will leave his mother and woman leave her home. They shall travel onto where the two shall be as one" plays perfectly in my mind here. And if Bella chooses to transform she will not be leaving family life. Who can forget the Book of Ruth: "Your people will be my people..." Bella and Edward would be doing just that. They come to each other in a state of physical and spiritual purity. Their love is pure. There is no duplicity of love potions. There is no Belle Dame Sans Merci, playing with the emotions of a knight in agony. It is unadulterated. There really isn't a princess and a prince charming--just two souls who need to be with each other, who need to rescue each other, who are ready to sacrifice their lives to spare the other.
If Edward could become human he would pay any price. As CS Lewis would say, (The Four Loves) Bella and Edward pay homage to Eros. But they do not forget their family. Renee has moved on somewhat. Perhaps Charlie will fall in love. Things will work out.
Bella, in her marriage to Edward and her change, if one does occur, will become a new creation. But so will Edward. Their unity will be a new creation. There will be an unexpected bridging of sorts. Bella will be the unifying force between species that detested each other. I see it going in that direction. The lion and the lamb will be at peace with each other. They will accept each others differences and learn to coexist with each other. This is one of SM's great themes: that species (all people) can coexist, can learn to live together. We see this in The Host. The ideas of coexistence, acceptance, seeking to understand, non violent, peaceful solutions. If anything Bella and Edward's unprecedented unity will be what the society in which they live needs. Hopefully, the treaty between wolves and vampires will no longer be needed. If anything Bella and Edward's union, pure of heart, and a true example of love, would be uplifting and just what I believe their society needs.
Please excuse me for bolding certain parts of your quote, but they are just so meaningful to me. I have spent a lifetime trying to communicate this message.
Thank you, thank you, for putting into such perfect phrasing what my heart tries to sing.